I was lurking around myspace before, and there are quite a few people on my friends list who are pregnant at the moment. There are a couple though, that I am going to talk about. I'm not going to say who they are. I am just going to say,that they are making terribly stupid decisions. It's not a bad decision that they are pregnant - that is fine, they chose to not use a condom - I couldn't be happier for them. They are young. The youngest one that I'm going to talk about, is 15. The other one I'm going to talk about is 19. The 19 year old one, yeah that's awesome, she's been with this boy for like 3 years. She is doing everything she can to make sure her baby will be safe. The 15 year old girl had been with her boy for like 2 months. They aren't together anymore. She goes and gets smashed every weekend. She smokes. She does drugs. Does she not realize that she is causing her baby, a fucking lot of harm?! There are so many ladies that want a baby more than anything, but they are unable to have one. She didn't even want this baby, she was just too reckless and just wanted some "fun", and now has a baby on the way. I don't mind the fact that she's pregnant, I think it's great. But the fact that she doesn't give a shit what she's doing to the baby, she just wants to make herself feel better...that shits me up the wall. She should stop smoking, stop the drugs, stop drinking...until the baby is born, atleast! I don't know why girls these days are doing it, to be honest. If they're going to be that stupid, they don't deserve to fall pregnant when there are so many women out there who want children more than anything - but are physically unable to do it. Don't get me wrong in what I'm saying, here. It's just...people should be more considerate of the lives that they will be bringing in to this world.
That's why, I am going to save myself until I'm married. If a boy falls in love with me, he will understand that I want to wait. If not, too bad for him, he's not having me. I just want to know that it is actual love, and that the boy isn't just saying that he loves me, so he can do me. Sex for me personally, is more than just sex. Sex is love. And I don't want to bring a baby in to this world, without having two parents who love each other so much that they want something - something that is the only thing in the world that can actually be a part of the both of them. I don't care if the guy has had sex before. I don't care if the guy has been with hundreds of girls. As long as he loves me enough, to wait until we are married, then I know that he truly loves me. So many people don't believe me that I will last that long; they think that I will have sex with someone after not being with them long. But they have no idea how much I do actually believe in this. It's the only thing I feel so strongly about.
That's why, I am going to save myself until I'm married. If a boy falls in love with me, he will understand that I want to wait. If not, too bad for him, he's not having me. I just want to know that it is actual love, and that the boy isn't just saying that he loves me, so he can do me. Sex for me personally, is more than just sex. Sex is love. And I don't want to bring a baby in to this world, without having two parents who love each other so much that they want something - something that is the only thing in the world that can actually be a part of the both of them. I don't care if the guy has had sex before. I don't care if the guy has been with hundreds of girls. As long as he loves me enough, to wait until we are married, then I know that he truly loves me. So many people don't believe me that I will last that long; they think that I will have sex with someone after not being with them long. But they have no idea how much I do actually believe in this. It's the only thing I feel so strongly about.
I agree and disagree with this.
ReplyDeleteI hate that they can treat their baby like that. It's not only teenage mothers either, older women do it to and it's disgusting. It's a life their messing with. Fair enough if they want to mess with their own life but it's SOMEBODY ELSE'S life and they don't give a fuck. Condoms aren't dear and they certainly aren't hard to find. If they're not going to accept the consequences or look after their baby, JUST BUY A FUCKING CONDOM. That's amuch better option than putting somebodies life on the line like that.
The thing I disagree with is that you said you'd never bring a baby into this world without two loving parents. I mean, obviously that's the ideal situation but look at Cahlia. She never had two parents and she's one of the best, most well-adjusted people I know. And there are some woman who desperately want a child but don't have a partner. Since there are ways for them to get pregnant, not being in a relationship shouldn't mean they miss out onthat opportunity.
@Kayla exactly. it's not that hard. it made me so angry when i found out about her doing all that stuff. it's horrible.
ReplyDeleteand yeah that's true, but like, i don't want my child to have to grow up with just one parent, if you know what i mean..?